{"id":304,"date":"2020-01-11T12:40:19","date_gmt":"2020-01-11T11:40:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/educotherapeute-bzh.fr\/?p=304"},"modified":"2020-11-24T17:39:24","modified_gmt":"2020-11-24T16:39:24","slug":"mon-enfant-soppose-me-provoque-se-confronte-a-moi-3-points-a-savoir-absolument-et-3-clefs-pour-apaiser-la-relation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/educotherapeute-bzh.fr\/index.php\/2020\/01\/11\/mon-enfant-soppose-me-provoque-se-confronte-a-moi-3-points-a-savoir-absolument-et-3-clefs-pour-apaiser-la-relation\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00ab\u00a0Mon enfant s\u2019oppose, me provoque, se confronte \u00e0 moi\u00a0!!!\u00a0\u00bb 3 points \u00e0 savoir absolument et 3 clefs pour apaiser la relation&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/sophie-dessin-resize.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<div>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Article r\u00e9dig\u00e9 par Sophie Luszezinski, Educoth\u00e9rapeute # Illustration Copyright Vincent Kergoulay<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>Lettre ouverte aux parents \u00e9puis\u00e9s<\/div>\n<h1>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00ab\u00a0Mon enfant s\u2019oppose, me provoque, se confronte \u00e0 moi\u00a0!!!\u00a0\u00bb 3 points \u00e0 savoir absolument et 3 clefs pour apaiser la relation\u2026<\/p>\n<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<div>\n<p>Simon 2 ans se met \u00e0 jeter le jeu avec lequel il jouait tout en me regardant.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>Il me sourie.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div>\n<p>Il vient prendre le jeu des mains d\u2019un copain alors m\u00eame que je lui interdisais et il me regarde.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div>\n<p>A table, je lui sers un verre d\u2019eau, il le l\u00e8ve et le renverse prenant bien soin d\u2019accrocher mon regard.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div>\n<p>Au lev\u00e9e de sieste je lui demande de s\u2019habiller, il refuse.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ces situations vous les connaissez probablement ! Vous vous dites que votre\u00a0 enfant le fait expr\u00e8s pour vous <strong>provoquer<\/strong>, pour \u00eatre dans la <strong>confrontation<\/strong>, dans <strong>l\u2019opposition<\/strong>.\u00a0 Ce qui a le don de vous mettre dans une col\u00e8re noire. Votre enfant prend du plaisir \u00e0 vous contredire, \u00e0 faire tout l\u2019inverse de ce que vous lui demandez pour vous rendre \u00ab\u00a0ch\u00e8vre\u00a0\u00bb et \u00e7a vous \u00e9puise. Peut \u00eatre m\u00eame que vous pensez que c\u2019est contre vous, qu\u2019il ne vous aime pas et votre c\u0153ur se serre \u00e0 cette id\u00e9e !<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h3>\n<p>Et si son comportement avait une autre finalit\u00e9 que celle de vous agacer, de vous \u00e9nerver, de s\u2019opposer\u00a0?<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>Bon nombre de parents aimeraient comprendre le langage de leur enfant pour que cessent les conflits et partager de meilleurs moments.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>Dans cet article, je propose 3 points \u00e0 savoir absolument et 3 clefs pour apaiser les relations\u2026<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/illustration-rocket.svg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h1>1. L\u2019enfant teste vos r\u00e9actions pour se rassurer<\/h1>\n<div>\n<p>A cet \u00e2ge l\u2019enfant observe vos r\u00e9actions comme Simon qui examine les miennes. <b>L\u2019enfant veut s\u2019assurer que ses attitudes auront toujours les m\u00eames r\u00e9percussions afin de se rassurer et de se sentir en s\u00e9curit\u00e9.<\/b> C\u2019est parce qu\u2019il sait observer et qu\u2019il garde tout en m\u00e9moire, qu\u2019il va faire des causes \u00e0 effet, qu\u2019il va pouvoir anticiper vos comportements et vous faire r\u00e9agir pour se convaincre que son analyse est juste.<\/p>\n<p>Monique Busquet, psychomotricienne \u2013 formatrice<b>,<\/b> dans l\u2019un de ses articles \u00ab Un enfant ne fait jamais expr\u00e8s&#8230; mais il sait parfois ce qu&#8217;il fait \u00bb parle de liens de simultan\u00e9it\u00e9.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Il est important d\u2019\u00eatre r\u00e9gulier<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>Quand ils vous voient mettre la table, il comprend qu\u2019il va bient\u00f4t \u00eatre l\u2019heure de manger. Lorsque vous mettez vos chaussures, il sait que vous allez quitter la maison etc\u2026 <b>C\u2019est la raison pour laquelle il est important d\u2019\u00eatre r\u00e9gulier et raccord dans votre mani\u00e8re de r\u00e9agir. Si un jour vous dite \u00ab\u00a0Oui\u00a0\u00bb et le lendemain vous dites \u00ab\u00a0Non\u00a0\u00bb l\u2019enfant s\u2019interroge.<\/b> Ses attitudes, il va les exp\u00e9rimenter avec toutes les personnes de son environnement et les r\u00e9p\u00e9ter autant de fois que n\u00e9cessaire jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que ce soit suffisamment claire pour lui.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Bien souvent et moi la premi\u00e8re je pense qu&#8217;il me cherche et j&#8217;entre en opposition<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>Je d\u00e9clare le combat de boxe ouvert\u00a0! Que le meilleur gagne\u00a0! <b>C\u2019est l\u2019ultime erreur \u00e0 ne pas commettre et \u00e0 \u00e9viter<\/b>. Dans les deux cas vous perdrez\u00a0! <b>Mieux vaut essayer d\u2019observer et communiquer.<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/illustration-cloud.svg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h1>2.\u00a0L\u2019enfant fait ce que vous lui dites pour valider la consigne<\/h1>\n<div>\n<p>L&#8217;enfant v\u00e9rifie qu&#8217;il a bien compris la consigne et ex\u00e9cute l&#8217;acte interdit. L\u2019action est la meilleure mani\u00e8re pour lui d\u2019enregistrer, de vous montrer qu\u2019il y a bien compris, bien entendu, d\u2019o\u00f9 son regard triomphant. \u00ab\u00a0<i>D\u2019accord c\u2019est \u00e7a\u00a0que je ne dois pas faire, tu as vu\u00a0?<\/i>\u00a0\u00bb Maintenant vous saisissez mieux la raison pour laquelle il peut sourire. En situation de stress, il peut continuer de sourire. Ce que vous prenez g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement pour de la moquerie n\u2019est en fait que la volont\u00e9 de r\u00e9tablir une relation sereine.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>Vous pouvez choisir d\u2019intervenir, en vous dispensant de crier ou d\u2019avoir des gestes brusques, l\u2019enfant comprendra alors que ceux qu\u2019il a fait est mal.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h3>L\u2019enfant v\u00e9rifie qu\u2019il a bien compris la consigne et ex\u00e9cute l\u2019acte interdit.<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>Je viens de dire \u00e0 Simon de ne pas prendre le jeu du copain et l\u2019instant d\u2019apr\u00e8s il lui prend<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>des mains. Il y a de quoi \u00eatre agac\u00e9 par son comportement et se poser la question de savoir s\u2019il comprend ce que je lui demande. Malheureusement il ne connait pas encore tr\u00e8s bien mes codes et se trouve surpris par ma r\u00e9action. Il se dit\u00a0<i>: \u00ab\u00a0je ne comprends pas ce qui l\u2019\u00e9nerve et la met dans cet \u00e9tat, j\u2019ai fait tout ce qu\u2019elle m\u2019a demand\u00e9, c\u2019est injuste ce qu\u2019il m\u2019arrive. Elle crie, pourquoi\u00a0? J\u2019ai peur<\/i>\u00a0\u00bb.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Enfin l\u2019enfant ne saisit pas la n\u00e9gation<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>Quand vous lui dites \u00ab\u00a0Ne prends pas le jeu du copain\u00bb, l\u2019enfant entend \u00ab\u00a0Prends le jeu du copain\u00bb, vous pouvez lui simplifier la vie <strong>en lui \u00e9pargnant la n\u00e9gation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/illustration-bird.svg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h3><\/p>\n<p>Ceux \u00e0 quoi il dit NON, c\u2019est \u00e0 votre injonction<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>Vous lui imposez une mani\u00e8re de faire peut \u00eatre m\u00eame d\u2019\u00eatre. C\u2019est un comportement \u00e0 \u00e9viter. C\u2019est vital pour lui \u00e0 ce moment de se diff\u00e9rencier pour exister. Pour r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 ces besoins dans la limite du possible, vous pouvez lui laisser le choix. Evidemment un choix ou il vous sera possible d\u2019y r\u00e9pondre de mani\u00e8re satisfaisante et qui correspondra \u00e0 vos principes \u00e9ducatifs. Ce jour l\u00e0, \u00e0 Simon, je n\u2019ai pas laiss\u00e9 le choix et je l\u2019ai habill\u00e9 tant bien que mal. D\u2019autres enfants avaient besoin de moi. Ce qui m\u2019a valu une col\u00e8re monumentale, \u00e0 se jeter par terre, que j\u2019ai accueilli.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ne menacez jamais le lien, ni ne le rompez, il a besoin de vous pour r\u00e9ussir \u00e0 s&#8217;affirmer<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><b>Je pense que la meilleure solution est de permettre le choix \u00e0 votre enfant, qu\u2019il puisse \u00eatre acteur de sa vie et devenir responsable.<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h1>3. L\u2019enfant vous dit NON pour s\u2019affirmer<\/h1>\n<div>\n<p><b>Si vous connaissez un peu le d\u00e9veloppement psycho affectif d\u2019un enfant de 2 ans<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>vous savez qu\u2019il entre dans une phase ou il va avoir besoin de s\u2019affirmer, de se diff\u00e9rencier et tenter de garder le pouvoir pour prot\u00e9ger son identit\u00e9.<\/b> C\u2019est la raison pour laquelle, il va tester vos limites et les siennes. Aussi s\u2019il per\u00e7oit que vous \u00eates d\u00e9stabilis\u00e9s, il peut essayer d\u2019aller vous chercher dans vos retranchements pour savoir si vous \u00eates suffisamment solide pour l\u2019accompagner et tester le pouvoir qu\u2019il a sur vous. Quand je demande \u00e0 Simon de s\u2019habiller ou que vous demandez \u00e0 votre enfant de mettre ses chaussures pour aller dehors, ce n\u2019est pas qu\u2019il ne veut pas mettre ses chaussures, ni s\u2019habiller pour Simon.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/illustration-falling-star.svg\" alt=\"\"><br \/>\n<img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/illustration-rainbow.svg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Les 3 points clefs \u00e0 savoir absolument pour apaiser la relation<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3>1<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">L&#8217;enfant teste vos r\u00e9actions pour se rassurer. N\u2019entrez pas dans le combat, vous risquez de perdre. Mieux vaut essayer d\u2019observer et de communiquer.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h3>2<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">L&#8217;enfant fait ce que vous lui dites pour valider la consigne. Intervenez sans crier et \u00e9viter la n\u00e9gation.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<h3>3<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>L&#8217;enfant dit NON pour s&#8217;affirmer. Ne menacez jamais le lien, ni ne le rompez, il a besoin de vous pour s&#8217;affirmer. Permettez lui de choisir en fonction de vos principes \u00e9ducatifs.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">L\u2019opposition, la confrontation, la provocation ne sont qu\u2019interpr\u00e9tations<\/p>\n<\/h2>\n<div>\n<p>Nous sommes en r\u00e9action et nous agissons en fonction de nos connaissances, de nos repr\u00e9sentations, de nos croyances, de nos \u00e9motions, de notre \u00e9ducation sans m\u00eame se soucier de ce que l\u2019enfant essaie de nous dire ici et maintenant. A l\u2019issue de cette lecture peut \u00eatre aurez vous une autre approche et compr\u00e9hension de la situation quand votre enfant r\u00e9it\u00e9rera pour la \u00e9ni\u00e8me fois un m\u00eame comportement.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<hr>\n<h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Avez-vous conscience de l\u2019immense pouvoir que vous d\u00e9tenez la entre vos mains ?<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<div>\n<p>Imaginez les superbes relations que vous allez d\u00e9velopper avec votre enfant. M\u00eame s\u2019il n\u2019est pas si facile de mettre en application mes recommandations, je vous encourage \u00e0 passer \u00e0 l\u2019action. Nous avons tous \u00e0 y gagner si nous agissons ainsi. <b>Retrouverez joie, s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9, complicit\u00e9, des \u00e9motions que vous n\u2019esp\u00e9riez plus vivre\u00a0!<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/illustration-sun.svg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Il y a plus d&#8217;articles pour vous<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<p>        <img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Bulle-1-avec-signature.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h3>AU-DEL\u00c0 DES APPARENCES !<\/h3>\n<p>Lettre Ouverte Aux Parents D\u00e9courag\u00e9s<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"index.php\/2020\/01\/09\/au-dela-des-apparences\/\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>        <img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/sophie-final2-new-face-signature-resize.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h3>Observez Votre Enfant Et Voyez Comme Il Vous Guide<\/h3>\n<p>Lettre Ouverte Aux Parents D\u00e9courag\u00e9s<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"index.php\/2020\/01\/11\/observez-votre-enfant-et-voyez-comme-il-vous-guide\/\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>        <img src=\"wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/La-col\u00e8re.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<h3>ENFANT COL\u00c9RIQUE! 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Peut \\u00eatre m\\u00eame que vous pensez que c\\u2019est contre vous, qu\\u2019il ne vous aime pas et votre c\\u0153ur se serre \\u00e0 cette id\\u00e9e !<\\\/p>\",\"position\":\"\",\"position_z_index\":\"\",\"block_align\":\"\",\"block_align_breakpoint\":\"\",\"block_align_fallback\":\"\"}},{\"type\":\"headline\",\"props\":{\"title_element\":\"h3\",\"title_style\":\"h3\",\"title_decoration\":\"\",\"title_color\":\"\",\"text_align\":\"\",\"text_align_breakpoint\":\"\",\"text_align_fallback\":\"\",\"maxwidth\":\"\",\"maxwidth_breakpoint\":\"\",\"margin\":\"default\",\"animation\":\"\",\"visibility\":\"\",\"content\":\"\n\n<p><br \\\/>Et si son comportement avait une autre finalit\\u00e9 que celle de vous agacer, de vous \\u00e9nerver, de s\\u2019opposer\\u00a0?<\\\/p>\",\"position\":\"\",\"position_z_index\":\"\",\"block_align\":\"\",\"block_align_breakpoint\":\"\",\"block_align_fallback\":\"\",\"title_font_family\":\"secondary\"}},{\"type\":\"text\",\"props\":{\"margin\":\"\",\"column_breakpoint\":\"m\",\"text_style\":\"\",\"text_color\":\"\",\"text_size\":\"\",\"column\":\"\",\"text_align\":\"\",\"text_align_breakpoint\":\"\",\"text_align_fallback\":\"\",\"maxwidth\":\"\",\"maxwidth_breakpoint\":\"\",\"animation\":\"\",\"visibility\":\"\",\"content\":\"\n\n<p>Bon nombre de parents aimeraient comprendre le langage de leur enfant pour que cessent les conflits et partager de meilleurs moments.<span class=\\\"Apple-converted-space\\\">\\u00a0<\\\/span>Dans cet article, je propose 3 points \\u00e0 savoir absolument et 3 clefs pour apaiser les relations\\u2026<span class=\\\"Apple-converted-space\\\">\\u00a0<\\\/span><\\\/p>\",\"position\":\"\",\"position_z_index\":\"\",\"block_align\":\"\",\"block_align_breakpoint\":\"\",\"block_align_fallback\":\"\"}}]}]},{\"type\":\"row\",\"props\":{\"layout\":\",\",\"breakpoint\":\"m\",\"fixed_width\":\"large\",\"width\":\"\",\"width_expand\":\"\",\"height\":\"\",\"margin\":\"medium\",\"column_gap\":\"large\",\"row_gap\":\"large\",\"match\":false,\"margin_remove_top\":false,\"margin_remove_bottom\":true},\"children\":[{\"type\":\"column\",\"props\":{\"image_position\":\"center-center\",\"media_overlay_gradient\":\"\",\"vertical_align\":\"middle\",\"style\":\"\",\"text_color\":\"\",\"padding\":\"\"},\"children\":[{\"type\":\"image\",\"props\":{\"margin\":\"\",\"image_svg_color\":\"emphasis\",\"link_target\":\"\",\"image_border\":\"\",\"image_box_shadow\":\"\",\"image_hover_box_shadow\":\"\",\"image_box_decoration\":\"\",\"position\":\"relative\",\"position_z_index\":\"\",\"maxwidth\":\"\",\"maxwidth_breakpoint\":\"\",\"block_align\":\"\",\"block_align_breakpoint\":\"\",\"block_align_fallback\":\"\",\"text_align\":\"\",\"text_align_breakpoint\":\"\",\"text_align_fallback\":\"\",\"animation\":\"\",\"visibility\":\"\",\"image\":\"wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/illustration-rocket.svg\",\"image_width\":\"400\",\"position_bottom\":\"\"}}]},{\"type\":\"column\",\"props\":{\"image_position\":\"center-center\",\"media_overlay_gradient\":\"\",\"vertical_align\":\"\",\"style\":\"default\",\"text_color\":\"\",\"padding\":\"xsmall\"},\"children\":[{\"type\":\"headline\",\"props\":{\"title_element\":\"h1\",\"title_style\":\"h3\",\"title_decoration\":\"\",\"title_color\":\"\",\"text_align\":\"left\",\"text_align_breakpoint\":\"m\",\"text_align_fallback\":\"center\",\"maxwidth\":\"large\",\"maxwidth_breakpoint\":\"\",\"margin\":\"default\",\"animation\":\"\",\"visibility\":\"\",\"content\":\"1. 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Lorsque vous mettez vos chaussures, il sait que vous allez quitter la maison etc\\u2026 <b>C\\u2019est la raison pour laquelle il est important d\\u2019\\u00eatre r\\u00e9gulier et raccord dans votre mani\\u00e8re de r\\u00e9agir. 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